Balance

Beware of the excesses ... they are dangerous! Not always what makes you feel good is necessarily the best thing for us.

Great men have been victims of excesses, whether in expenditure, sex, lack, or vice.

Nothing progresses when the balance hangs on the side contrary to virtue.

Counseling is not living...

Each person knows the principles that lead them to fear changes or to make them without question.

Regardless, there is only one point where we recognize that our mistakes outweighed our successes:

Our "rock bottom" ...

A place where no one wants to go but once in a while we're coming back to it.

Unfortunately it is not the nicest place to discover that we have been giving more value to the excesses than to the balance, however, it is a starting point towards the return.

Do not be fooled though!

Not all "bottoms" have springs.

Some have mud, and in the mud, the more you move, the more you get stuck.

As if that were not enough, we will also be surrounded by accusers.

People who have never helped but are willing to point out our shortcomings based on their own shortcomings.

The question we must ask is: When will our actions lead us there?

It's not whether ... or why ... it's something certain.

If you are not in balance you will have to visit this inhospitable place.

perhaps the amount of mud that you left in that place, or even threw it there, thinking that it would not come back, could hinder and delay your return to happiness, which is nothing more than the fruit of balance, between good and bad decisions, good or bad moments .

What then would be the right decisions?

It's a matter of choice!

There is no right or wrong!

Everything is only a consequence of the attitudes we take.

If we insist on tracing new paths on old roads, we will reach the same end.

It's like a game!

We try! We try and try to go a certain way and we end up "dead", thus having to restart that phase.

If this "game" only causes you pleasure during the match and the result of losing it causes frustration ... Why would you continue to play it?

If we do not know how to stop the game at the right time, we will be heading for an addiction.

And there is addiction of all kinds ...

And self-sabotage is one of the most dangerous ...

And painful!